Alt+Ctrl+Wed has everything you need to plan your wedding.

Alt+Ctrl+Wed membership includes access to our virtual wedding planning portal and our Discord community, where you’ll find:
  • A very organized brain dump of everything I’ve learned in over a decade of planning weddings, broken down into small chunks that are easy to work through a little bit at a time. That’s how we ditch the overwhelm.
  • Literally the best wedding planning checklist and budget spreadsheet you could get your hands on – color coded and customized. That’s how we keep you on track.
  • Templates and spreadsheets for every single part of wedding planning: figuring out your vision, keeping track of venues, questions to ask vendors – you name it, we’ve got something for it. That’s how we make sure you don’t miss anything important.
  • Need to get organized for your wedding day? We’ve got you covered there too! You’ll get a full set of organizational docs for your day that you can share with your vendors and VIPs. That’s how we keep your wedding day running smoothly.
  • Discounts! Alt+Ctrl+Wed members can save on wedding stationery, suit and tux rentals, live streaming, and more with our exclusive member discounts. That’s how we help you stick to your budget.

What's in the Alt+Ctrl+Wed Planning Portal?

Module 1:
How to Start Planning a Wedding

  • The Big-Ass Wedding Planning Checklist
  • Establish Your Wedding Vision (a fun exercise to reveal the wedding you truly want)
  • Create Your Wedding Manifesto (setting wedding priorities and guidelines)
  • Use the Fuck-it Bucket to Ditch Wedding Planning Stress
  • How to Choose a Wedding Date
  • Get Organized With the Epic Wedding Spreadsheet
  • Discounts for Alt+Ctrl+Wed™ Members
  • How to Research Wedding Costs
  • Managing Funding Sources (i.e. how to ask your parents for money)
  • Developing a Realistic Wedding Budget
  • Payment & Savings Trackers
  • Calculators for Absolutely Everything
  • Track Everything with the Budget Spreadsheet! (which calculates things automatically and displays it in beautiful charts)

Module 2:
The B Word: Budget

Module 3:
The Big Picture

  • Defining Your Ideal Venue
  • How to Find Wedding Venues
  • How to Inquire with Potential Venues (with copy & paste email templates)
  • Vetting & Evaluating Venues
  • Questions to Ask Wedding Venues (with print & go evaluation form)
  • What to Look for in a Venue Contract
  • Drafting Your Wedding Day Timeline (with multiple templates for different kinds of wedding days)
  • Who to Invite to Your Wedding
  • Dealing with Your People
  • Wedding Party & Family Roles
  • Hotel Room Blocks and Other Guest Accommodations
  • Wedding Day Transportation
  • Tracking addresses, RSVPs, and Meal Choices (and the best way to do it)
  • How to Make a Seating Chart (easily and to scale – for free!)

Module 4:
The Guest List

Module 5:
How to Find and Book the Right Vendors for YOU

  • Finding Vendors You Love
  • When to Book Each Kind of Wedding Vendor
  • Vetting Potential Vendors
  • How to Inquire with a Vendor (with copy & paste email templates)
  • Vendor Consultations
  • What to Look for in Vendor Contracts
  • Questions to Ask Potential Vendors (with print & go forms for each type of wedding pro)
  • To DIY or Not to DIY
  • Types of Catering
  • Full-Service Catering
  • Non-Traditional Catering Options (food trucks, restaurant drop-off, etc.)
  • Proposals & Contracts
  • Catering Tastings
  • Bar & Beverages (including our beverage calculator)
  • Cake & Other Desserts
  • Rentals
  • Event Staff

Module 6:
Eat, Drink, & Be Confused

Module 7:
Plan a Meaningful Ceremony

  • Choosing an Wedding Ceremony Officiant
  • Tips for Friend & Family Member Officiants
  • Ceremony Participants
  • Structure of a Wedding Ceremony
  • Ceremony Logistics
  • Seating Arrangements
  • How to Get a Marriage License
  • Build Your Final Wedding Day Timeline
  • All the Small Things (little bits & pieces that are easy to forget about)
  • Your Wedding Logistics Plan
  • Floor Plans & Seating Assignments
  • Backup Plans for Inclement Weather
  • Delegate What You Can’t Do
  • Confirm Every Last Detail

Module 9:
Wedding Day Logistics

Module 10:
Find Your Wedding Zen

  • Rehearse Like a Pro
  • What to Pack in Your ‘Oh, Shit!’ Kit
  • Practical Tips for a Low-Stress Wedding Day
  • Actual Tips for Your Team of Wedding Pros
  • Our Wedding is Over. What Now?